CHAPTER 21 MARY AND RUDY FREUDIG
HUSBAND Rudy Freudig
| DATE - M/D/Y | CIT Y | COUNTY | STATE (COUNTRY) | |
| Born | 9/11/1911 | Danbury | Connecticut | |
| Married | 4/18/1936 | |||
| Died | 3/4/1987 | Flushing | New York | |
| Buried | ||||
| FATHER - Rudy Freudig | Other Wives: | |||
| MOTHER Mary Freudig |
| DATE - M/D/Y CITY | COUNTY | STATE (COUNTRY) | |
| Born | 9/9/1911 | Cleveland | Ohio |
| Married | |||
| Died | |||
| Buried | |||
| FATHER - Konstantine Symochko | |||
| MOTHER - Tatiana Medwid | Other Husbands: |
| Sex | Children | Birth date | Birthplace | Date of Marriage - Name of Spouse | Date of Death - City, State |
| M/F | In order of birth | M/D/Y | City State Country | ||
| None |
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My father, Konstantine Symochko, was born in Hanchowa
in 1875 and died in 1927. He was married to Taca Medwid about 1906 or 1907
in Hanchowa. My sister Melka was born October 8, 1908 and she and my parents
came to the USA some time in 1909 or 1910 to
Cleveland Ohio. I was born September
9, 1911.
About 1912 my grandfather became ill,
and wrote to my father to please come back to Hanchowa to take care of
the homestead. I don't remember if my grandfather was still alive when
we arrived because I was two years old. My parents told me that the old
house was ill bad shape, so my father had to build a new log cabin for
us. By 1914 the new building was finished, when World War I broke out.
Since he was married and had two girls, he did not
go in the army at first. After all
single young men were drafted, my father was called up in the end of 1914
or beginning of 1915.
My brother was born at the end of 1915
or early 1916,
I don't know his exact birthday (We
never kept records of births or deaths.) My mother was left alone with
three children.
Soldiers came through our village, bill
we could not communicate because they did not know our language, and we
did not know theirs. They set tip
a kitchen in our orchard. They killed
our chickens, pigs, lambs, and cattle. The just cleaned up the whole village.
Then Russian soldiers came and saw that the people were starving. They
wanted to help us but the people had never seen canned food, so they would
not take it. They thought that it was horsemeat.
I don't remember much other
than what people talked about. The first soldiers had burned homes after
they took all the food from the people. Out of 160 homes in the village,
about half were totally burned or vary badly damaged. In 1916 or 1917 Spring
came, and we only had one horse left. My job was to take care of my brother.
I had to wash and feed him, and I carried him on my back. I could not lift
him, so I went down on the floor on all fours, and lie crawled on my back,
and then I had to stand up.
Mother and my older sister
went in the field to plow and seed the rye. One day mother came home ill,
and blood started flowing from her nose, then her mouth. My sister went
to the next village to get our uncle. He came with her but mother died
that night. I remember the neighbors came to talk to our uncle Metro Medwid.
Some of the men made a wooden coffin, and I remember my mother being laid
out in our kitchen. The neighbors brought in food for us. The next day
was the funeral but I did not go because I was left to take care of my
brother Peter. Uncle stayed with us for a few days, and then he got a horse
and wagon and packed what little we had. We didn't have much clothing and
no shoes, and no food. Uncle Metro took us home with him. He was the youngest
for four. He was 21 years old at the time, and not married. He didn't know
what to do with his sister's three children.
I believe this was around
1918-1919 and our father was still away even though the war was ended.
He was imprisoned in a Russian prison for some reason unknown to me. Uncle
Metro sent my brother and me to live for a short time with a distant relative.
I was about seven or eight years old. My sister stayed with uncle during
this time. My brother and I were sent back to Uncle Metro when the people
didn't want us any more, because they said that we were too much trouble.
After awhile we all three
went to stay with an old couple whom we were told to call "aunt and uncle",
but I don't know if they were related to us. We lived in our village called
Skwirtne. We were there for some time, and then we went back to our uncle
sometime in the fall. I remember going out into the mini garden to get
some potatoes for supper. I believe it was 1919 or 1920. A strange tall
man came to Uncle Metro's house asking for him. Uncle was not at home,
and we were terrified of this unshaven tall skinny man, whose clothes were
almost like rags. He did not identify himself.
When Uncle Metro came home
he introduced us to the tall skinny man as our father. I don't remember
my father before he went to war. He stayed a few days then he got a wagon
and horse, a bag of potatoes, and a few other things, put us in the wagon
and took us home to Hanchowa. The house was empty and the windows were
boarded up. It was late in the Season. I remember being very cold.
I wrapped my brother the best I could to keep him Warm. We didn't have
any firewood to heat up the house. My sister and I and even my brother,
went into the woods to gather firewood so that we could cook some potatoes
(two for each). We did not have anything else to eat.
Next day some neighbors
got together and the whole village came with wagon full of food. That was
all we had: Turnips, beets, sauerkraut, and some flour to make bread. There
wasn't any meat or milk.
About 1921 or 1922 my father
married an old widow, Julia Durniak. She had a lot more than we had. She
had two sons, Harry and Peter with her. There were seven of us. Julia didn't
have any land, just a small house. She used to work for people to support
her soils. She moved to our house and it was bit better for us for awhile.
About 1925 or 1926 father became ill and died. We were left with a stepmother
who was good to us. I was lucky that I was born in the USA because when
I went to the agent, he was able to apply for the necessary papers. I had
a birth certificate, so all I needed was an American Passport.
I remember I had a second
uncle on my father's side in Yonkers, New York. I had their address so
I wrote to them. Uncle Nick Symochko sent me my passport. (Nick was Marko's
older brother). It took two years to get all the paperwork. I finally arrived
in New York January 1, 193 1. Hnat Durniak picked me up at Ellis Island
January 2, 193 1. Hnat was related to my stepmother and her sons Harry
and Peter. Harry married my sister Melka.
Hnat Durniak, his wife Antoinette
(Korin) knew me from Europe since they had come to America a few years
earlier. (They had two children: Mary and Walter) They gave me a place
to stay, food and clothes, until they found me a job as housekeeper for
$ 10 a month. I had one Sunday afternoon "off " a month. There were three
children, and the parents. I washed the family laundry by hand in a wash
tub. I ironed everything and cleaned the eight-room house and helped with
the cooking. It was a never-ending job from 5 am to 11 p.m.
I left that job and came
to Greenpoint, Brooklyn, New York where I stayed at the home of Anthony
Durniak, (my stepmother's older son, who had emigrated to the USA before
she married my father) and his wife Mary (Kuryllo) and their three children:
Peter, Michael, and Julia. They helped me to get a job in a factory where
I worked as a "piece worker." (i.e., I got paid by the number of pieces
I produced.)
Rudy Freudig worked in the
office as a timekeeper. I used to make a good salary: $18 - $20 a week,
so the managers sent the timekeeper to find out how I could make so much
more than the other ladies could. That is how Rudy and I met. We started
dating, and then on April 18, 1936 we were married.
World War 11 broke out and
Rudy was drafted because we did not have any children. He was inducted
into the Army in 1942 and served until discharge in 1948. We had problems
because Rudy was moodier and would not talk, but we made it. He lived until
1987. He was born in 1911 and died 1987. I am still living in our home
in Amenia, New York.